Friends         | No, I won't answer your Private Messages. Speak to me in the rooms if you wish to chat.  xX Tinkerbell Xx: All 3 of my kittykatties 10 hours ago • Report • Link   3  Srchng4Truth: Awww 9 hours ago • Report 0 xX Tinkerbell Xx: I said his house was cold the first night, so he had new pajamas waiting for me the next night. 💞 And they were my size. He can keep me, I've decided. 🥰  xX Tinkerbell Xx: Another one bites the dust  What is it about men and communication? Fuckin hell! Is it an allergy!? Thankkkk you. Next. 😵💫😵💫😵💫 View all 11 posts  xXSaneXx: That's why I don't bother with relationships. Sometimes it's better to be alone, no drama, you save money too by not having to spend it on someone who probably won't be around in a month or so  Sir Loin in reply to xXSaneXx: I'm in a happy relationship now after a lot of heartache. What we have isn't perfect but it is happy and my wife earns a lot more than I do so it's not costing me at all 😃 xX Tinkerbell Xx: Wow.... wow.... wow.... Who would have thought that the meanest looking giant in town would have the softest touch? Just getting home from his house, I was supposed to be home much earlier but he woke up, took one look at me in his bed and called out of work. 🥵🥰 He brought me coffee in bed and gave me a foot massage, apparently he's been crushing on me foreverrrrr too. All the way back to 2011 when we first met. So glad I took a chance on him. 💞 xX Tinkerbell Xx: And in a crazy development of my life going a FUCKING MACH TEN this damn week. A guy who's always been around my mutual social scenes but never really connected with me.... just started chatting me up yesterday morning and I had an amazing day connecting and chatting with him alllll day. And after a nap and shower, I'm headed out for pizza with him. Tbh, I've had a crush on him for a long long time but he totally looks mean af in a hot way and super unapproachable... usually already coupled... and we both just happen to be single rn. If it doesn't work out, I can always just check it off my "If" list  View all 8 posts  xX Tinkerbell Xx: Apparently the guys in the ambulance asked them if I was a girlscout, with the way I wrapped her wound and actually stopped the bleeding.  guilty lol! I'm glad those red cross first aid courses finally paid off. I am officially adding "Grace Under Pressure" to my girlfriend resume. 👑 xX Tinkerbell Xx: Well... here we go for date #2 tomorrow night! This guy is getting further than the last one lol, we'll see how it plays out... 🤔🤔🤔
xX Tinkerbell Xx: Womp womp. He called me from work, explained that he's a manager on Black Friday and has to stay late at work. I understand how crazy customer service can be, and offered to reschedule. He jumped all over that and now our second date will be Sunday AT HIS PARENT'S HOUSE. I... I think this guy might actually be pretty serious about me. Just got a intuitive feelin lmao bringing me home to the family on a Sunday. I'm equally excited and terrified. I need a new blouse... xX Tinkerbell Xx: He tried to apologize and fix it but I was on a date he fucked around and found out 🤷♀️ xX Tinkerbell Xx: Yeah, I'm out here looking for my soul mate, not my next head ache 🙄🙄🙄 no time for drama xX Tinkerbell Xx: Well.... After the 20th time of being told that you cannot be trusted because of what an ex did, what do you do? Do you sit there and let their past poison your combined future? Do you tell them they're self sabotaging? Do you set a boundary? Yes, these are all healthy and valid responses, assuming you have some couth about it and are gentle with them. What is not healthy is for him to invalidate your feelings by saying that you're "going off" ... it is not healthy for them to tell you that you're gaslighting them by refusing to allow them to project their past partner's issues onto you... it is not healthy for them to decide in a flash, that you're not good enough for them, because you set a boundary about how they're allowed to make you feel, and how they're not allowed to turn you, their prospective future partner, into a therapist who will carry their emotions for them. So, what do we do?! We wipe those few, precious tears of disappointment and grief, for a love lost before it started, and you move on. Glad I saw the switch before it got too serious. Thank you, next.  WizardBeWitch: The only way anything will work in the long run is by establishing your wants and needs and then making sure respect is amicable xX Tinkerbell Xx: Well, the date went well, I've neverrrr had a goodnight kiss quite like that! Best one ever! xX Tinkerbell Xx: Happy 3am!!! Soooo glad I went to sleep early tonight. Currently, I'm at the ER with my roommate and her son (my godson) - he came home from a sleepover at nana's house with an ear ache and it got progressively and aggressively worse throughout the night. Poor little guy is in a lot of pain, I am betting it's an inner ear thing. Pray for him please, he is so tired and sore xX Tinkerbell Xx: Thankfully the ER was extremely quiet, we got in and out pretty quickly, the doctor was super patient and kind to the boy, got him some antibiotics and fast acting ibuprofen. 20 minutes later he's smiling and asking for his mom's phone and wants food. I've never been so happy to hear an "I'm hungryyy" lol glad he's feeling better, his poor little cries were breakinnnn my heart! xX Tinkerbell Xx: He's on the way to pick me up!!!  I'm so nervous and excited!! (Yes my friend is grabbing his plate number and has his full name, I'll be safe) Wish me luck!! xX Tinkerbell Xx: I'm totally losing my mind with excitement! The guy I've been dating, when we matched, I thought he was just another fellow rockhound, he had all kinds of crystals in his profile photos. NOPE! He is way more into it than I thought! He is sending me videos of crystals piled into every corner of his house, photos of him on mining trips, and photos of him at a faceting wheel, grinding and shaping stones he dug! I am absolutely blind with excitement because he is going to introduce me to his mining partner and help me get an apprenticeship for lapidary training and as most of you know, this is something I have been saving and struggling to afford schooling for, for quite some time! His long term dream is to own a mine, and my dream is to cut and facet stones and make jewelry for the rest of my life, idk how this could get any more aligned tbh I am blown away, it's like the Universe finally cracked and said "Alright, you win, you've learned enough, here's your damn soul mate." 🙄 We have a date tomorrow, I can't wait to see him! View all 6 posts xX Tinkerbell Xx in reply to wickedevilsmile: That's exactly the stuff I need, I have the machine, but I need/want sintered laps instead of glue on laps, and dobs/dobbing jig, all the glues and bottles of fine polishing grits, not to mention the acids and oh! A leather lap, biggoals 🤩🤩🤩 anywho, I appreciate the sentiment, I would dieeee if someone set me up like that. xX Tinkerbell Xx: Gizmo & George! I was worried when I got Gizmo, about how well Gemma and George would take to him. Gemma went the opposite way I thought she would, and barely tolerates Gizmo. George though, George became his momma! They are very good brothers, they play and cuddle very well together 💞  |
