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A New Year, A New Start?

Well here we are with 2014 underway nearing the end of the first week!! So my plan is to really put me first. Not ahead of my kids but ahead of others who have in past months and years been a drain. Its time for me to love me first and foremost and worry about others less.

So who am I? Well following 15 magnificent years together I was widowed in 2004 and since that time have really been trying to find "me" again. In 2009 I met someone who I thought was my second soul mate. I sort of still do. He is my best friend. Somehow still remains so even after having done something very very hurtful. This past August I came to learn that for the previous 18 months he'd been living a double life. A new woman, had a son nearing 9 months of age and in about a months time to the day....just two days following our 4th anniversary in meeting?? They were getting married. Sounds unbelievable doesn't it? I guess in that we are still friends...but isnt that the proof of true love? That it never ends?

So this year? As I said in the beginning its all about me. Now am I looking for that next new soul mate? No not really. I am here to make friends. Male and female, platonic while I discover all that there is to about myself. My next relationship can wait indefinitely. I say this because I have a very tall order to fill in that department and well until I have found someone that measures up completely? No thanks.

So what have you got planned for 2014?